The Divine Institution of Marriage

The Church recently released a document called “The Divine Institution of Marriage.” The document explains the Church’s “reasons for defending marriage between a man and a woman as an issue of moral imperative” and is intended to “reduce misunderstanding and ill will” regarding its position.
I’m glad the Brethren chose to publish this essay. I had been able to gather snippets of information regarding the reasoning behind the Church’s position on same-sex marriage from other statements, but there was no single document that combined them all or went this much in depth.
“The Divine Institution of Marriage” outlines the social, legal, moral, and political implications of legalizing same-sex marriage and the Church’s reasons for defending traditional marriage. The document mentions many common facts and arguments used to support traditional marriage, but from the Church’s unique perspective. Some parts could be more clear or argued in a better way, but overall it does the job. There is only so much evidence one short essay like this can provide.
Here are some of the most interesting and important quotes from it:
“Marriage is not primarily a contract between individuals to ratify their affections and provide for mutual obligations. Rather, marriage and family are vital instruments for rearing children and teaching them to become responsible adults.”
“Tolerance as a gospel principle means love and forgiveness of one another, not ‘tolerating’ transgression… The Church does not condone abusive treatment of others and encourages its members to treat all people with respect. However, speaking out against practices with which the Church disagrees on moral grounds — including same-sex marriage — does not constitute abuse or the frequently misused term ‘hate speech.’ We can express genuine love and friendship for the homosexual family member or friend without accepting the practice of homosexuality or any re-definition of marriage.”
“Legalizing same-sex marriage will affect a wide spectrum of government activities and policies. Once a state government declares that same-sex unions are a civil right, those governments almost certainly will enforce a wide variety of other policies intended to ensure that there is no discrimination against same-sex couples. This may well place ‘church and state on a collision course.’”
“Marriage is fundamentally an unselfish act: legally protected because only a male and female together can create new life, and because the rearing of children requires a life-long commitment, which marriage is intended to provide. Societal recognition of same-sex marriage cannot be justified simply on the grounds that it provides self-fulfillment to its partners, for it is not the purpose of government to provide legal protection to every possible way in which individuals may pursue fulfillment. By definition, all same-sex unions are infertile, and two individuals of the same gender, whatever their affections, can never form a marriage devoted to raising their own mutual offspring.”
“The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has chosen to become involved, along with many other churches, organizations, and individuals, in defending the the sanctity of marriage between a man and a woman because it is a compelling moral issue of profound importance to our religion and to the future of our society.”
I invite everyone to read this document, think about it, and decide whether or not it makes sense to you. Same-sex marriage is an issue that will become only more pressing as time goes on. We must each decide where we stand and how to defend our position, whatever it is. Whether it makes sense to us or not, I hope we all choose to follow the Brethren, but we are not to follow them blindly. We must learn for ourselves if what they say is true, which I believe it is. Please study this document and the related materials and decide where you stand.
What do you think?









